Ask QC: How to Receive Butt Sex Properly

Hi, ASK QC:

I’m a 23-year-old Chinese man, and I’m a virgin. Yes, I know. It’s creepy. It’s not because I don’t want to, it’s just there are so few gay people around in my town. OK, enough about my sad life. I met a guy a couple days ago, so I want to ask you guys a few things about butt sex.

1. How do you prepare for butt sex? How do you clean properly? Do you need equipment?

2. During the butt sex, do you push or just suck it in?

3. Is ass-play (licking, fingering, fisting) really necessary? If it is, is it safe?

4. After receiving butt sex the first time ever, how does your butthole feel and what’s the smart move in terms of health and cleanliness?

5. After several times, does your butthole loosen up? If it does, is it possible that I could shit my pants for no reason or just a single fart could pull the trigger?

6. Does anal sex have a high risk of getting STDs? And what about butt sex with a condom?

Thanks,

Matt

Hi Matt. Thank you so much for your question and concerns. It can take a few tries to get all the (ahem) ins and outs of butt sex, but once you get the hang of it, it’s pretty straightforward. And there’s no shame in asking; none of us (except maybe DarkHog) were born knowing about butt sex; we all had to ask these questions at one point or another. Have at it, QueerClickers! Help Matt out. What advice can you give him about his first anal sex?
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