Ask QC: I kissed a girl… and liked it!

Dear Ask QC,

I’m 28 yo, single, gay and have never considered myself to be bisexual or straight.

I was recently was at a party, got a little too drunk and ended up kissing a girl. The weird thing is I really liked it, to the point where I got aroused.

I’m a bit disturbed by this as I have never been sexually aroused by looking at a female body and I have only ever dated men. I feel a bit weird about it, because I have the urge to want to try it again… am I turning straight?

Help!

Hi there and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Many gay men have kissed (or even had sex) with women, it doesn’t necessarily mean anything other than you are exploring all possibilities, it’s doubtful that any incident such as this will “turn you straight”. So, dear QC readers, have you experienced this before? What tips and advice do you have for this situation? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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