Ask QC: I wanted him to fuck me but he only used a dildo!

Hi QC,

I’ve been seeing this guy as a fuck buddy for a few months now. I’m a bottom and he’s top and at first it was really great he would call me late at night, I would go over there and we would fuck like crazy for hours!

But recently this last few times, he’s not the one initiating the call, and when I phone or text him he says he’s too tired. But I still end up going over there, that’s what fuck buddies are for right? Anyway, last night, for me, was the final straw he really got me mad! Instead of him fucking me he just got a dildo out of his drawer and said he would use that instead as he was too tired to fuck me – I felt really insulted and stormed out!

When I got home I texted my friend about it and he just laughed and said, to get another fuck buddy or to at least let this guy rest up a bit! Damn! OK I know I’m a hungry and energetic bottom, but surely a top should be able to get it up at any time and fuck there and then right? Why the heck would anyone need to use a dildo on me when they have the real thing between their legs? Jeez!

Of course, yes I can look for another fuck buddy, but I really like this guys cock, it’s seriously long and thick and (at least up until recently) our sex has been mind blowing! And he has an amazing body, his abs are rock hard, which is a pity because his cock wasn’t!

So my question is, seriously is this normal behaviour for a top when he is tired to pull a dildo out of the drawer and then start using that on a bottom? If you’re that tired can’t you just get it up and then lie back, I will do all the rest of the work and fuck your brains out! And anyway, on the Apps, where did all the decent tops go? Why are there so many bottoms now? Gawd! What’s a decent bottom got to do now to get his ass filled?

Thanks guys,

Cooper

Hi Cooper and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Well, there are quite a few questions and issues there aren’t there? So, dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give Cooper? Have you been in this situation with your fuck buddy before? What did you both do to overcome this? If you can help in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice for all in the QComments section!
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