Ask QC: My dick is so bent I can’t fuck

Hi guys,

I have a somewhat embarrassing problem with my dick, when it gets erect then it bends downwards (towards my balls) and curves towards my ass. It’s a good size (7″ cut and thick) but I am having difficulty in trying to top with it – I’m not that experienced in fucking/topping (I’m 19) even though I’ve had quite a few dates.

Most of my dates go WOW when they see my dick, I guess the size and the bend surprise them, but it’s getting to the point now where I’m getting rather down because every time I try to top then it ends in failure. I’ve tried all sorts of positions with my dates, (but mainly they expect either missionary and doggie positions) but what always happens is that when we are both all lubed up my cock just wont go in and stay there – it gets ‘pushed’ out by the curve and slips away from their asshole. No matter how much I push it in it just wont stay in there, it ends up being painful for me and my date.

I recently dated an older guy (39) who was real patient with me and even though I wasn’t able to fuck him either (we tried a lot of times and different positions!) he did teach me how to be a bottom, which felt surprisingly good to me. I had never bottomed before him as I believed I’m a total top but he is flex and said lets try it. I guess this kinda opened up a new set of options for me sexually that I didn’t ever think of, but I still want to be able to fuck rather than be fucked.

So unless I gain some amazingly acrobatic or contortionists skills (yeah I know, I can joke about it a bit now), do I resign myself to becoming a bottom and never being able to top? Or do I have medical treatment or surgery to correct my penis and make it straight. The surgery thing kinda scares me (cost and I still live at home with parents so there’s the embarrassment factor too), is there anyone here who has had that procedure done before, was it successful? How long does it take before you are back in action, any weird side effects?

I’d really be thankful for some help with this, I’m getting to the point where I’m starting to shy away from dating because of it.

Thanks guys

Noah

Hi Noah and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. It’s understandable to have concerns particularly when it comes to such a sensitive part of our anatomy. I’m sure you already know, from the reactions of previous dates, that there are a lot of guys who love cocks that curve. Yes that’s great to get such a positive reaction but more importantly here is how you feel about it and if you feel it necessary to have medical treatment to correct this. As a next step we would certainly recommend a visit to a qualified urologist to find out what options are available to you (medication or procedures). With regard to embarrassment you will get over that as a urologist will have seen it all before and of course there is client/patient confidentiality too (there is no reason a urologist would discuss that with your parents). So dear QC readers, what advice would you give Noah? Do you have a curved cock? Did you get it corrected and if so, how successful was the treatment? Or are you a bottom who is able to receive such a curved cock (with a downwards curve, not upwards)? If so what position worked best and would you recommend to Noah? If you have any ideas on how to help him then please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the QComments section!

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