Ask QC: My boyfriend told me he wishes I was uncircumcised

Dear Ask QC,

Two nights ago I was having a good time hanging out with my boyfriend at the house. We were laying on my couch and we were frotting, rubbing our dicks together. Then out of nowhere he says “I wish you were uncut like me.” My heart immediately sank. I thought he in fact liked that I was cut.

So long story short I ended the relationship right there and told him that I want to be with someone who likes my dick the way it is and wouldn’t change it. My last fuck buddy told me he had a fetish for foreskin which once I found that out I stopped wanting to get my dick sucked by him. My ex gf once said that she likes uncut.

I like being cut its who I am I’m a white boy born in Texas its not weird to be cut but all these people I come across would rather be with uncut. I don’t know if its a growing trend or what? Did I dump my boyfriend for a good reason?

Kurt

Hi Kurt and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Sorry to hear of your upset and relationship difficulties leading to a break up. We are all different and we all have our preferences but sometimes vocalizing them may not be the most tactful thing to do. In your case your ex certainly put it across the wrong way and it’s understandable that you would be frustrated by this. As you have said, you are happy to be circumcised and its clear you want to be accepted exactly like that and for who you are. Remember it’s not you that has the fetish or preference for foreskins it’s been your other former partners, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get along with people who do. Assuming you’ve had enough regular sex with your former partners that they didn’t actually have a problem with your cut dick at those times it would appear you would need to be able to tolerate and accept their different preferences enough if you wish to reconcile over this. So dear QC readers, what advice would you give Kurt? Is foreskin preference a growing trend? And did he dump his boyfriend for good reason? If you can help him in any way then please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the QComments section!

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