Ask QC: A peg too far?

Dear QC,

I have an open relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 5 years and we often welcome one, two, three guys into our sexual adventures. I’m not going to lie I really enjoy it and I know some of your readers will say they don’t understand, but it has brought us closer.

We sometimes, but not often, have hookups outside our relationship. Over a bottle, or two, of wine Saturday night my bf told me that he had sex with a woman from work. To my knowledge this is the first time he has had sex with a women since we have been together. I identify as totally gay and I feel like he has cheated on me in a way that him having sex with other men has not made me feel. He told me that she had asked him about pegging, her desire to peg a guy and the inability to find a guy who wanted to get pegged. Long story short he said she could explore it with him. He as always been a butt slut, so I’m not surprised.

Has he gone too far? I feel a little let down, like the trust is gone. But it was only with a woman that I have these feelings. I hope my fellow ‘Queer Clikers’ can offer some advice.

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