How interesting that this situation presented itself today: I’m a 54 year-young gay man with a husband of almost 27 years—we have spent virtually half of our lives together (yes, we’re one of the 18,000 legally recognized married couples in California!). I was having lower back problems for the past few years, and Yoga and Pilates wasn’t solving the problem. A friend said, hey, go check outthis massage place in town, you might get some relief with a really deep tissue massage. I called up. Yes, they had a male masseur, and I made an appointment.
He was a pleasant guy, mid-twenties, and he knew his bodywork profession well. I made several follow-up appointments. My back pain was becoming a thing of the past, his bodywork was helping out tremendously, and I was thrilled. After a few visits and getting to know a bit more about him, he told me he was quitting that job and I inquired if he would be willing to come to my home – not far away – on a weekly basis to massage me and perhaps my husband. He said yes, he was interested and honestly, the money was good – we paid him, including gratuity, a total of $230 each
time for two 90-minute massages. Do the math: that’s almost $1000 a month.
Deep tissue massage, if done properly, is like a tough workout and is intense. By this time I knew he was a good Christian boy, married with kids, and I had told him about our marriage at our home with over 60 friends and family attending. He knew we were gay and didn’t seem to have a problem with it. We never said anything to comment negatively on his apparent strong Christian beliefs, and we certainly weren’t about to ask if he would consider adding a “happy ending” to each of our sessions. This was all on the up and up.
Over a year has passed, and I thought we were on schedule for our Saturday morning massage. This morning I received a call from him where he essentially told me his faith is important to him and that he had been praying for me. That must have been Red Flag #1. I thought it was nice that someone said they were praying for you. Then he goes on to say it was because of our “lifestyle”—my blood started to boil—and that he believes in the bible and that those who do not accept Jesus into their hearts are going to hell.
He knew from previous conversations that we are both Jewish, just as he’s known all along we are two fine people who love each other and just happen to prefer men. I was shocked and yet I just listened to him, allowing him to express himself. I’m old enough to know that this conversation had a dead end to it, that there was no point in debating or arguing, and I thanked him for his honesty and wished him good luck. I was just going to let it go and figure, I’ll go online and find a GAY bodywork professional locally and then our “lifestyle” won’t be an issue.
I called mom and she said let it go, there’s no point when someone has those beliefs. Three friends I spoke with today expressed shock, including a Christian friend (who needs to come out of the closet!) who was “horrified” at what had happened. Fundamentalists of any religion—Christian, Islamic, Orthodox Jews—generally all have extreme views about everyone else who are different from themselves, and those views are thinly veiled disguises of prejudice in my opinion.
I don’t think I should let it go, I feel an obligation to respond to him about his “beliefs” by expressing to him my beliefs about folks like him who continue to perpetuate hate against gay people – or any other groups of people who don’t fit into their images of a moral individual. I certainly don’t expect him to alter his beliefs or views based upon an e-mail from me pointing out his flawed thinking— most likely he’d receive it and trash it without reading it, but one never knows.
I’m curious as to the feedback and comments your wise readers might provide. I’ll hold off on emailing the schmuck until (hopefully) I receive some great advice from the gang here. Thanks in advance!
Tom
Looks like Tom’s experience with his masseur didn’t have the happy ending that it should have. Should he talk to him and if so, how can he best most effective? Or should he and his partner just move onto to a gay masseur without another word? Please share any advice and experiences that might help in the comments section. Have a question for QC? Send ’em to[email protected]and we’ll do our best to solve your problems!
Mega hottie Lance starts off rubbing his cock through his shorts until it’s rock hard. He pulls his thick dick out for some relaxed stroking. Lance really grips that slicked up dick tight while he works it. Once Lance is up on his knees (a position we think he likes) he continues to pull his pud, showing off it’s full length and thickness. Then Lance bends over to give us a great view of his tight little ass, big dick and lickable balls. Lance pulls his cheeks open wide so we can get a close up view of his hot tight hole. Check out the look on Lance’s face as he lays down on his back, stroking his thick dick. He’s CLEARLY enjoys indulging in himself. He beats his meat furiously until he explodes his wad all over his tight, sexy body.
Meet Kent James: he’s an ex-Mormon, his rap persona is “Nick Name,” and he just got done fucking your boyfriend. Now, before you get angry, your boyfriend chose pretty well. We mean, if he was gonna cheat on you, you’d rather he did it with someone attractive, right? Besides, according to Nick, he fucked you too once upon a time, so get off your high horse there, missy. No matter what you think of Nick Name’s boyfriend fucking, we like Nick’s hairy, chest and brazenly confrontational manner. His song’s pretty hilarious too. You can check out his pictures, bio, and other videos at his website. Related QC Features: More Bad Sex Rap With Drag Performer Christeene’s Fix My Dick Where Is All The Mormon Porn? Ask QC: Is Webcam Cheating?
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Check back later today for a history making coupling….That’s right Bel Ami and Corbin Fisher are mingling the US and European gene pool and all male porn may never be the same!
Ever since Randy Blue announced the release of their first full-length feature,That 70’s Porn Movie, everyone at QC (even Chinpoko) has been eager to learn more. We loved the poster but now that we’ve got the trailer, we’re even more excited!
Although the sound’s a little uneven and we wanted more afros, medallions, and cock-smoking hippies, the film looks fun, like an ultra-gay version of Dazed And Confused. And just like D&C, it’s got hot jocks paddling each other, students hitting on professors, and drunken partygoers groping and making out at the end. Wait a sec… was Dazed And Confused a soft-core porno? Huh… we’ll have to think about that. But in the meanwhile, we’re looking forward to July 31st release date. If only the 80’s were this hot.
Thanks to Starfucker for the pics!
Kawika (English translation: David), is an important historical Hawaiian King and also a very cute tattooed Hawaiian boy living on Maui today. Kawika arrived for the shoot both nervous and excited with his new puppy, Seesaw. The video of this short (5’4″), 21 year old local boy, who speaks in his native pigeon (Hawaiian/English dialect) throughout the shoot. He shyly states that he was undecided if he wants to show “da front” to the Island Studs cameras. Fortunately, as he relaxes, he is soon standing full frontal. The camera captures his dick growing without him touching it! Kawika was so sexy that day, he agreed to come back again (next week) for another jerk off scene. This local Hawaiian boy is absolutely charming.
Ever since Dallas Evans made his debut on Randy Blue Live as the Fresh Meat of the week everyone has been asking Mr. Blue about him. They jokingly call him the singing cowboy because he mentioned on the show that he loves to sing, and being from Texas, well the cowboy connection was bound to happen.
You can tell this guy spends a lot of time engaged in physical activity because his body is just too hot. He loves to swim and it really shows in the way his muscles wrap around his exquisite body. With a little bit of hair on his chest and just a hint of a treasure trail that leads to a nice patch of pubes, he gives off the feeling that he likes to be totally natural.
Bryan seems to have run into a lot of red heads lately, so if you are fan of them, the next month or so will be full of them!
Jonah turned 18 only a couple months back, but has been eager to do porn since realizing his dick is pretty dang big! He has a girlfriend who clearly likes to bite on him.
On the car ride to the studio he told Bryan his girlfriend had done the finger trick on his prostate and he immediately busted. He thought maybe he could play with a toy- if it paid more of course!
Most alien abductees tend to block out their memories of anal probing because it’s so mind-blowingly awesome… either that or they don’t want to make their Earth lovers jealous. After looking at the pictures from Raging Stallion’s latest release, The Visitor, we’d like to get beamed up for some intense anal probing too. We won’t repress our memories. Hell, we’ll even help skeletonize a few cows and flatten some crop circles if they promised to probe us again.
In The Visitor, Logan McCree plays Epoc, an alien scientist studying male human sexuality. But unlike Earthling scientists who just fiddle around with their precious theories, Epoc’s ready to go balls deep into his reasearch. It’s kinda like The Man Who Fell To Earth, except with less Bowie and more hardcore fucking—maybe Epoc’s from Uranus; he certainly loves crashing his vessel into ass-teroids.
There’s lots of hot man sex in Epoc’s quest for carnal knowledge. First, a three-way between Logan, newcomer Cole Streets, and Bruno Bond, then some alleyway anal between Junior Stellano and Angelo Marconi. Next, Logan and Damian Rios go at it followed by David Taylor fucking Lucky Daniels (Taylor’s the lucky one, in our opinion). Lastly, Dominic Pacifico gets taken to another plant on Austin Wilde’s love rocket—how stellar!
We’re excited and industry buzz is already comparing this sci-fi fuck flick to last year’s To The Last Man. We’re not so sure about that, but the press release calls the two-disc feature “a high concept film with little or no dialogue” and promises special effects on par with Minority Report—wow! We hope some of those effects are used for freaky-deaky alien sex scenes. We spend an awful lot of time fantasizing about all the zero-gravity cyborg porn that’s gonna be made once we set up porn studios on the moon—floating jism, rim-bots and wall-to-wall doggy style—we’ll all get to fuck like ass-tronauts. Related QC Features: John Barrowman Gets Naked on Sci-Fi Show, Torchwood Fuck A Slutty Alien in Bum Tropics Star Trek Bulges – Chris Pine and Zachary Quinto
Thanks to Gay Porn Blog for the pics.
After a long day at school there is nothing better than to come home kick back and relax with your cock in hand.
Brec Boyd has had a long day with his head deep in the text books. Now it’s time for Brec to undress and get the tub flowing with some hot water. Taking his sweet time he loves to show off his muscular physique and sexy tattoos. While waiting for the tub to fill Brec chills out on the chair stroking his massive cock slowly until its nice and hard.
Archie is convicted for petty theft and sent off to Borstal. He is “greeted” by Fred and Tyson. Unfortunately (or fortunately… depending on your perspective), their initiation is harsh and cruel. Tyson gives him a boot in the back while Fred hisses in his ear, “You are fucked!” He is forcibly stripped out of his clothes and laid naked on his bunk. The men then take turns sucking Archie’s big uncut dick and forcing their own massive, thick cocks down his throat. Soon the spunk is literally flying and Archie is marched off to the showers to wash the dripping, sticky cum from his face and body. Fred and Tyson share a knowing smirk. Archie is going to make the rest of their hitch at Borstal much more interesting!
Sexy and talented artist, Michael Breyette grew up in rural upstate NY, a region, he says, that can sometimes parallel the stereotype of the red-neck South. He early work focused escapist sci-fi and fantasy scenes. Though he’s grown up you can still see a fantastic element in his work, whether it’s the big-dicked devils, butterfly boy, or stud-turned-wolfman, or his more intimate portraits of men deep in thought. His works have an anticipatory nature—the men rarely participate in full-on fucking; they’re usually in the moment just before or after. It imbrues his work with an erotic tension that’s keeping us quite erect.
He certainly gets his aesthetic from porn, yet he’s said that his work responds to his perceptions as a gay man living in America:
The part sex plays in my artwork has to do with my feelings that sexuality especially gay sexuality is repressed by mainstream society. Also in artwork, a simple nude female is more easily accepted by the general public that a nude male…a nude male is going to cause more controversy and is more likely to be labeled pornographic but I think my work is more about the beauty of men, their lives and their loves and that we’re just like everyone else. It’s only the sex that makes us ‘different’.
Michael’s advice to young artists is to “do something you enjoy. You may not know what it is yet, you might not know until you are 30 or 40, but when you do, go for it no matter what you are doing or where you are at, at the time.” We wanted to post more of his awesome paintings here for your enjoyment, but you should really just check out his website and enjoy the rest of his incredibly hot paintings for yourself. You can even order his prints, books, and commissioned works through the site. Related Features on QC: QCA Art: B. Boyer QCA Art: Male Ero Painter QCA Art: Pricasso
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