Ask QC: My Skin’s Too Sensitive For Sex!

Dear QC,

I have a problem that I could use your readers’ help. My foreskin and my ass are very sensitive. I have a very high threshold for pain but I often literally feel torn up after sex. If a guy jacks my cock too hard or pulls the skin back too far, I feel pain as if a microscopic rip occurs. The same can happen during sex. Even with more than enough lube, my ass will often feel as if it has been ripped open the next day. I feel a lot of pain even if a guy just fingers me, I feel as if there are tears in my lining.

Fortunately, there’s never been blood but my skin feels very raw the next day or shortly after sex. It feels like I have an open wound. I also have to be very careful when I JO so I don’t hurt myself. I always make sure to use plenty of lube but I still have issues. I usually have to tell a guy to be gentle but they usually get tired of me wincing in pain and then get turned off. I’ve had to stop guys from giving me hand/rim/blow jobs because I feel as if a rip has occurred.

Am I the only one with this issue? I feel I am at a higher risk for STDs because of this and have wondered if there were ways to “toughen” up my foreskin and ass.

Thank you.

Rip/Torn

Ouch! It sounds as if Rip/Torn’s problem is definitely rubbing him the wrong way. We’ve had our share of rough sex and mishandled handjobs, but it’s definitely the exception rather than the rule. So how can Rip/Torn make sure that his sexual encounters go more smoothly? Please share your advice and experiences in the QComments.
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