Ask QC: Am I Just A Booty Call Or Does He Genuinely Like Me?

I met a really dazzling fellow at a bar a few weeks ago. His name is David, he’s my age, owns a coffee shop, and is an artist with his own apartment. We were both drunk and it was late and we went back to his place and fucked. We got along that night and have hooked up twice since then. Each time he’ll call me, we’ll smoke a little weed, talk, and listen to music. We both have a lot in common, have good senses of humor, enjoy art, literature, and film, and really get along in conversation. Plus the sex is pretty hot.

In short I like him and I think he may like me but I can’t really tell. I have tried not to let on and tend to keep a low profile. We make sexual compliments but nothing very romantic or about each other’s personalities. I don’t make such compliments because I don’t want him to think I’m clingy or for the sex to stop. He’s a pretty busy guy so I don’t know if he’s fucking other people or not, but I wish there was some way I could ask him if he likes me or tell him I like him without it getting all weird.

Is there any way to ask or figure out if he likes me without scaring him off?

Oh hookups! You two-headed beast! We’re sure plenty have guys have hooked up with a fellow only to end up having feelings about them later on… but what to do about it? Should our advice seeker be upfront about his feelings? Is there a way he can express his feelings without giving away too much? Or can he figure out if his new fuckbud likes him in some other more subtle way? Please share your experiences and advice in the QComments section!
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