Ask QC: Is HIV Transmitted by Oral Sex

Hi Ask QC,

My name is Axer and I’m scared as hell. A week ago I got a blowjob from a man that said that he was not HIV+. It didn’t last long, but I am wondering how risky that action was in terms of contracting the virus. Now I know he is positive. I checked my penis and there weren’t any scars or visible lesions on it the day of the performance. I’m not sure about his mouth hygiene, so that worries me a lot. Also I finished inside his mouth and he literally ate my semen. Please help me.

Thanks,

Axer

Hi Axer. Thank you so much for your question and concerns. First of all, nothing anyone says on this advice thread is going to replace the value of getting tested regularly. Even if you don’t think you’ve been exposed, regular testing should still be a part of everyone’s routine. Secondly, though oral sex is not completely safe, it does carry a significantly lowered rate of transmission. Especially if you’re the one receiving oral sex (and not reciprocating). Again though, I’m not a healthcare professional. Get tested. So, QCitizens, does anyone have any experience in this area? What advice do you for Axer?
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