How Porn Actor Tag Eriksson Became A Million Dollar Real Estate Broker

UPDATE 11/21: Read more of Fredrik Eklund’s bio and see his Freshman shoot as Tag Eriksson
Fredrik Eklund is a successful, gay, Swedish-born New York City real estate broker who has helped find apartments for celebrities such as James Bond actor Daniel Craig, John Legend, Jessica Alba, Paul Rudd, Ben Stiller and Brooke Shields. His portfolio is worth more than $58 million and he’s also part of a prominent family with ties to Swedish royalty, prime minsters, and famous director Ingmar Bergman. Oh, and he’s also worked as a porn star for Jet Set Men under the name Tag Eriksson.
You may remember Tag from such hole-warming films as American Porn Star, Desert Pick-Up 2, Lords II: Return to the Manor, and The Hole, a film inspired by the Japanese horror movie The Ring where watching a certain “haunted” video tape makes you gay—he won a 2004 GAYVN Award for Best Solo scene for that film. Though he moved to the USA in 2003 he couldn’t find work, so he performed in gay porn from then until 2005, and then wrote a memoir about it called Lord of the Fruit Flies.
But even before Eklund got into porn he had already started his own software company in Sweden that made customer-relations software and he also began a music management label that scored small successes in Latin America and Japan. Even now his real estate firm is part of an HGTV reality show and Eklund is currently in talks with Bravo to star in his own show. Sadly, the show will most likely be about real estate instead of blowjobs, but Eklund is an interesting exception to the rule. While a lot of porn performers these days get their start in reality TV, Eklund shows that maybe it’s best to do porn first and then become a reality star. Well played, sir!

Chinpoko Poll: Do you give or receive facials? Or both?

A quarter of all QueerClickers think that South America has the hottest men! The runners up are West Europe, East Europe, and the America. Sadly the bottom three from most to least popular were Asia, Africa, and Antarctica… but I’m betting that just because you guys haven’t tried to get laid there. Believe me, polar bear sex is HAWT!
I love a good facial, especially when a cock hungry guy is begging for it. There’s nothing hotter than a cute guy with a flushed face just waiting for you to blast a load all over his sweet face. But I realize it’s not everyone’s cup of cum. So how about you studs? Do you prefer giving or receiving facials? Or both!? Or neither?!!! Call me crazy, but I bet there’s a load of QueerClickers who just love having seminal plasma blown across their faces—you cum hungry whores!!!
I’m not judging. Heck, I love getting facials too! Besides, protein and calcium are good for your skin!

Chinpoko Poll: Where Are the World’s Sexiest Men?

Hey guys, from our last question that about 60% of you would totally do porn. And the 34% of you who wouldn’t only refrain from doing so because you don’t wanna be seen naked by others. I’ve seen myself having sex and it’s quite a sight—but should people pay to see it? Hmmmm…
I recently saw the trailer for Smut Capital of America, a great documentary about how San Francisco changed the entire country by producing gay and straight porn in the 60s and 70s. You can help their get made by donating to their film. But it made me wonder, where do you think the world’s hottest men come from? I’d say Western Europe, but that’s probably because I haven’t been to Eastern Europe, Australia, or South America. I love international men.

Did The Trapped Chilean Miners Fuck And Agree Not To Discuss It?

You may have heard about the recently rescued Chilean miners? 33 men got stuck underground together for 69 days. Yes, 69. They stayed trapped for 17 days before they learned that anyone was coming to save them… the sort of stressful situation that would make us kill for a handy or a beej. But now that they’ve been rescued, have they made some sort of secret pact not to talk about their sexy time underground?
Mario, one of the rescued miners said, “We are used to working in darkness—we are miners. We can feel our way down there in a way other men cannot.” Uh-huh… we bet. But were they busy drilling each other deep in the Earth’s bowels before their rescue drill came into the tunnel? The Daily Mail investigates:

Mario (one of the rescued miners) says: ‘No, nothing like that ever went on. We were too busy trying to survive to think of sex. We didn’t really even talk about sex. We spoke of our wives and we made some jokes but we never talked about sex seriously because that would have been too painful.’

They did strip down to their underwear in the 92F degree heat, wash each other with water trickling down from a rock, occasionally told jokes (probably a few about pussy), and then went off to cry away in private—but those were about the gayest things they did.
But isn’t the first rule of Mine Club that you don’t talk about Mine Club?!! Why is Mario discussing the secret pact now if it’s so darned “secret”? Mario elaborates:

“The reason I am speaking is that people have been gossiping and saying things and I think it is important for one of us… to answer some of the things that people are getting wrong. Saying we had sex down there with each other is just plain wrong.

‘There are some things I will never talk about. But they are things that would embarrass some of the kids. Nothing sexual, more that they acted like kids. It is important, even now, for the older ones to protect the younger, more vulnerable ones.’

So stop being such a perv, guys! All they did was pray and worry about their wives. Maybe one or two of them spanked it, but that’s totally a personal super secret private time. You wouldn’t want us telling everyone about the times you’ve jerked off out of desperation, would you? GAHHH!

QC Quotations

“You men have no idea what we’re dealing with down there. Teeth placement, and jaw stress, and suction, and gag reflex, and all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe through our noses. Easy? Honey, they don’t call it a job for nothin’.”
— Samantha Jones (a/k/a Kim Cattrall), Sex and the City
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QC Quotations

“I was one of the first ones to jump on the bandwagon to make fun of a gay person, and look how I turned out—I had a secret this whole time. So if people can look at me and see that I was one of those bullies that always made fun of gay people and I had this huge secret. So there’s always a bigger story than what you see.”
– Lance Bass, American pop singer formerly of N’Sync speaking about the recent spate of gay bullying (yes, spate).

Don’t Be Like The Jerks Who Drove 18-Year-Old Tyler Clementi To Commit Suicide

You may have already heard the tragic story about 18-year-old Tyler Clementi, the talented violinist and Rutgers University freshman who killed himself after his douchey roommate broadcasted Tyler “making out with a dude online.” The douchey roommate and his accomplice (Dharun Ravi and Molly Wei) have been charged with invasion of privacy and could face up to 5 years in prison.
But it has also recently come to light that Tyler had caught his roommate’s second attempt to film him and that he turned to a forum at JustUsBoys.com for advice. Here are his posts from that thread where he uses the screen name cit2mo (CLICK TO ENLARGE).

An employee of BluMedia, which owns JustUsBoys.com, wrote Gawker to say:

JustUsBoys.com does not collect much information when someone creates an account and begins to post, so we cannot confirm cit2mo was Tyler Clementi. However, the IP address for cit2mo does appear to resolve back to Rutgers which reinforces the other evidence that cit2mo and Tyler are the same person.

Tyler’s last post came 15 hours before he jumped to his death from the George Washington bridge into the Hudson River where investigators found and ID’d his body earlier today. Before jumping he posted the following message to his Facebook page, “Jumping off the gw bridge sorry”. He also had an account at Cam4 where other members are now leaving their condolences.
Ravi has now deleted his Twitter account and put his Facebook on lockdown, probably to avoid hate messages and as a poor attempt to avoid prosecution for the incriminating and mocking messages he left broadcasting his roommate’s sexual activities to the world. He’s also been released on $25,000 bail, but even if he’s found innocent for invasion of privacy Forbes Blogger Kashmir Hill says his troubles aren’t over. “In addition to the criminal charges arising from this, there will be civil lawsuits. Rutgers University may find itself the target of a civil lawsuit. And Clementi’s family and perhaps Clementi’s unnamed romantic partner of September 19 will surely sue Ravi, and perhaps Wei, for invasion of privacy.”
We just wanna add that it’s easy to forget that behind every Ask QC is an actual person needing help; sometimes QC is the only place they can turn to because they don’t have many gay friends, need to stay anonymous, and need the advice of experienced men who they can trust and turn to for help so they can avoid bad situations. Many QCommenters offer genuine help and perspective and for that we thank you. But other QCommenters sometimes use Ask QC as a way to mock and call names.
The fun and bitchiness of the web sometimes spurs us to say things to QCommunity strangers that we’d never say to strangers in real life. So please remember many guys come here to safely enjoy their fantasies and ask for help. We welcome lively discussion, but please be civil, courteous, and treat others as you’d like to be treated. If Ravi had extended that same courtesy to Tyler, Tyler might still be alive today.

QC FYI: Will You Still Be A Sexual Superhero At 60? Maybe…

Hey young dudes, guess what? As you get older it will take longer for you to get aroused, longer for you to cum, you’ll cum less and also have a 70% chance of going impotent—but that’s not all! Your prostate may enlarge making it difficult to piss on your loved one and your penis will change from its young virile appearance to something resembling an albino garden shrew.
According to male physicians, men who get fatter as they age instead of staying sexy end up with dicks that look smaller because their cocks end up hidden behind all the flab. You can prevent it by staying slender. But no matter how chunky you get, as you reach your 60s or 70s your penis will likely shrink about half an inch and your balls will shrink by a centimeter because of crappy blood flow.
Lastly, penile scar tissue may cause your wiener to curve unnaturally (a condition known as Peyronie’s disease which can require surgery). But there is an upside to all this depressing news:

Experts say these changes need not ruin your erotic life. One recent study involving 2,213 men in Olmstead County, Minn., showed significant declines in erectile function, libido, and ejaculatory function—but only moderate decreases in sexual satisfaction. “Older men may be less likely to perceive these declines as a problem and be dissatisfied,” concluded the study’s authors.

As Goldstein puts it, “The most important ingredient for a satisfying sex life is the ability to satisfy your partner, and that doesn’t require peak sexual performance or a big penis. As long as a man’s partner enjoys sexual intercourse, he feels like a god.”

That’s great! So put away the gun, unfasten your diaper and grab the Viagra! Just remember to slip on a condom before your all night orgy at the Golden Oaks rec room.
PS. Is it a problem that we totally want to fuck the old guy in the first pic? No? Oh goody!

Chinpoko Poll: Have You Ever Paid For Sex?

I am proud of you QueerClickers! I didn’t expect a lot of you to like the idea of being shit or pissed on. But while about 54% of you would never try piss or scat, at least 40% are open to trying watersports and another 3% are open to poop play—just goes to show you can never assume what kind of shit another guy might enjoy!
But now I have another question: how many of you gents have ever paid for sex? There’s no shame. In fact, Chinpoko thinks that legally regulated prostitution could help pay off the national debt, but that’s a topic for another day. In the meanwhile, have any of you studs ever shelled out cold hard cash for some hot warm ass?

QC Quotations

“Will everyone stop thinking that dude (Jake ) is gay? Seriously guys. How immature is it of the media to perceive this guy — it has to be because of Brokeback, right? I’ve known this dude forever. He’s one of my oldest friends, and it’s very weird that they have this — it’s very immature and infantile the way they treat his whole situation. If him hanging out with his bros means he’s gay, it’s like further perpetuating that weird homophobia that exists in our culture, which is just stupid. So, yeah, he’s my buddy. I fuckin’ love the guy”
—Adam Levine of Maroon 5 speaklng about the gay rumors that persist about\Jake Gyllenhaal — because the Brokeback Mountain star is not gay.

QCrimes? 3 Men Accuse Anti-Gay Mega-church Bishop Eddie Long Of Sexual Abuse And Coercion

Eddie Long is the politically powerful and infamous bishop of the 25,000 member New Birth Missionary Baptist Church. He once led an anti-marriage equality march to the gravesite of Martin Luther King, has written such anti-gay bestsellers as I Don’t Want Delilah and Gladiator, the Strength of a Man, and has led gay conversion groups like Out of the Wilderness and Sexual Reorientation—all to set homos on the straight path to his bedroom heaven. But now that 3 of his young male congregates are suing him for sexual abuse and coercion, Long might need some conversion help of his own.
The three men (now around age 23) joined Long’s group “the Spiritual Sons” around age 18. They allege that Long discouraged them from having relationships with teenage girls, enticed the men with cars, jewelry, and electronics purchased with church money and then presented the gifts in private commitment ceremonies to cement their bond. He’d also take the young men on expensive trips via jets to luxury hotels with one bed and then coerce them to touch and perform oral sex on him while using biblical scriptures as support.
The attorney representing the boys said, “[Bishop Long] would use biblical stories to talk about how important it was to follow your leader, and your master. And let him know that the acts he was engaged in were not necessarily… homosexual… but that rather Bishop Long was ‘releasing his passion’—and ‘his love’ for [the young congregant).”
Right now this is only an alleged crime. Long and his lawyer have denied the charges outright. Though Long cancelled a press interview to discuss the charges today, he says he will defend himself from the pulpit this Sunday. Nevertheless, disgraced anti-gay pastor and alleged prostie-loving meth queen Ted Haggard spoke in support of Long:
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Haggard said that Long deserves a fair hearing and that if the accusations are false, he will survive the ordeal. ‘The bishop is surrounded by people that will counsel him well,’ he said. Haggard, who was a superstar among the Christian right until a gay sex scandal forced him to resign, said that all too often unsavory allegations can tarnish a person’s reputation, even if they are unproved. ‘Public perception becomes more important than the facts,’ he said. While stressing that nothing had been proved against Long, whom he said he has met once or twice, Haggard said it’s important to remember that all Christians struggle with sin. ‘It’s fundamental to all Christian beliefs that Christians are simultaneously saints and sinners,’ he said. ‘We’re saints in the eyes of God, but we all know we’re sinners, which is why we value redemption.'” Added Haggard: “Nobody’s guilty until the court says he’s guilty.”

We’re sure Long appreciates Ted’s support. But did Long pull a George “Rentboy” Rekers or have these men come forth to smear his good name? We certainly hope it’s the former. Not to make light of these serious accusations, but it’s always satisfying when a rabid anti-gay bigot turns out to be a butt-loving queermo. Long sent the picture above of him pulling a GuysWithiPhones pose to one of the young men suing him, adding “Eddie L. Long, Amazed by His Grace.”
Let’s see what happens next…

QC FYI: Brits Used Semen To Help Win World War One

June 1915. England finds itself locked in a brutal battle against the Germans. Mansfield Cumming, the first chief of Britain’s Secret Intelligence Service had to discover an invisible ink for sneaking messages across enemy lines. Tormented, he struggled to find a solution until he came upon one… or rather, one came upon him—male semen!
Yes, not only is male semen great for cooking it also makes a darned good invisible ink because it doesn’t reveal itself under iodine vapors or other common detection methods. But even though the army had no shortage of this ‘ink’, the brilliant solution ran into several problems:

However, the discovery also led to some further problems, with the agent who had identified the novel use having to be moved from his department after becoming the butt of jokes. In addition, at least one agent had to be reminded to use only fresh supplies of the ‘ink’ when correspondents began noticing an unusual smell.

We wonder how many British soldiers splattered ‘secret messages’ onto stationery and left them to moulder in the trenches. Did any gay German soldiers detect these notes by smelling the faint hint of boy batter? Do secret agents still send top secret cum stains? Would James Bond?

QC Quotations

“I do not want to abandon the notion of wisdom and age. And I think the decline of testosterone and the vibration on the train tracks of death can lead to a more dispassionate understanding of the world, and, perhaps, thereby, a greater and deeper relationship with God. Maybe that’s what separates me from these men’s views: faith. And the sense that less need for sex is some kind of relief, not a curse, however one misses the perpetual hardons of youth.
But it still requires adjustment. Just as it took me about a year or two to throw out the Rogaine and deal with being bald, so I’ve now thrown out the Just For Men on my beard.”
—gay political blogger, Andrew Sullivan